That's it really. This has been a long time coming and I can't quite believe the s* and lies I've put up with over the last year or so for our 3 DCs' sakes. He now says he's going to move out, god knows how/where as we have a huge joint mortgage and debts that cost us over £1000 per month in min. payments. He earns 4x more than me and there is no way on earth I can afford the bills and mortgage payments on my own to enable me and DCs to stay in the house. We've been married nearly 15 years and have so much stuff - it's all just overwhelming. Any thoughts re what do do regarding money arrangements - or anything else - would be gratefully received. Just so sad right now, mainly for our beautiful, innocent children .
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pussyfooting · 23/02/2014 13:16
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