I have gone round in circles for the last 30 years with my 2n dd.
I have totally supported all her life,(long story), she is now 44.
every year or 2/3/4, she will argue with a family member,
paranoid of everything anyone says.
then refuse to talk to them,
for the last 2 years she has no contact with anyone, aunts, cousin and siblings.
least of all me her dm,
our last contact was a totally vile email the day her cat died,2 years ago, she seems to have a wobble when she has a personal problem
she refused to answer her phone to me when I attempted to simply ask her why?
it destroys my life each time ,as I fear that this time will be the last time I hear or see her again, I am now 68. .
she has done this on a regular basis to me, my dh, my ds and her ds.
she devastated her aunt, who also loved her.
we have to walk on eggshells around her when she kindly " makes contact" but know that it is only a fragile relationship.
she was the happiest child you could imagine, but as an adult she seems so full of hate.
12 years ago, she refused contact with her elder sister, saying she hated her husband,
*then today, out of the blue, she emailed her to say "sorry" and she would like to meet her again, just like that.
her sister is very forgiving, but I wonder "why" now.
she hasn't spoken to her brother in 6 years, but suddenly she wants to have " happy families"
she abused my husband verbally, quite unwarranted as he is a very quiet, sweet caring person, yet she seems to believe that she can behave how she chooses ,and everyone must accept her horrendous aggressive behaviour.
look forward to hearing any thoughts
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any advise re daughter nc
lookfowardtohearing · 22/02/2014 19:44
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