Late last year my husband, who is normally a very attentive affectionate man started to withdraw from me. We have been together 5 1/2 years it's a second marriage for both of us and we both have grown up children. He had been in the habit of telling me he loved me frequently. But I noticed that he hadn't done this for a while and that he was not being his normal tactile self so I started asking him if he still loved me...I was deeply shocked when he eventually said that he didn't. I am an extremly busy person and he works shifts. We had not done anything nice togethor for a long time but i had been too busy to notice. He was doing the lions share of cleaning washing and tidying up. I am very disorganised and create a whirl ofess everywhere i go....He has since been diagnosed with depression which he is receiving treatment for. He said it was not possible to work things out although I desperately wanted to. We were still living together. I told him he had to work to put it right or move out and I arranged to go to relate with him. At relate he was very clear that he didn't love me and saw no way back from that. On Thursday night I made a suicide attempt (please don't judge-i too have a history of mental illness and just was in hell). He had a house to move into (which I hadn't known about- I can understand why he hadn't told me before he could move in) and has now gone. I told him that I have realised that what I can't change I have to accept and I will make this as easy as possible for both of us. He said he would like to be friends. He came this morning to take some things and I went with him to look at his new house. He is being very affectionate. He is kissing me and cuddling me and keeps saying he doesn't want me to die. I am very confused. Is it possible to rekindle our relationship?
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