this isnt a dilemma I have but I can't stop thinking about it, my sister has just announced that she is pregnant to a guy that she has been with for less than 6 months, she has already introduced him to my nephew, the problem is this guy has kids from a previous relationship that he isn't allowed to see (they were took off him and the mother) social services were involved too.he has already hit her twice (that I have been told about) and he regularly just gets up and walks out on her (even in the middle of conversations and when people are there) he has also woke her up at 1 in the morning and had a massive go at her because of something she said in her sleep.I have talked to her and she has said that she doesn't know what she is going to do but then in the next sentence says she hasn't told her son yet.my main concern is that if she does keep the baby then there will be more stress added to the situation and he will hit her again and also that she wont be able to tell anyone who the dad is as there would be a possibility that social services could find out and then they would take both children off her.it seems that I am the only looking at the bigger picture at the moment and I just want to shake her and tell her that the best thing she could do for everyone in the situation is to have a termination and then get rid of the deadbeat boyfriend. what do I do?
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