H has a habit of fibbing. When caught out he doesn't own up but tries to over explain or just deny. Even when I have 'evidence'of his fib, he just keeps stumm and I start doubting myself and my version of things. Not a good feeling, it messes with my head. The things I know he has fibbed about are quite minor but it happens frequently.
Anyhow, I've had a 'feeling' about one of his female colleagues for some time. I don't tend to take this kind of 'feeling' seriously normally as I used to have a tendency to be jealous early on in our relationship and don't want to go down that route. So it turns out he has been exchanging emails with this person from work at 23:00. The content is quite professional but they are planning to meet up the next day to discuss a work issue. 4 emails exchanged within a few minutes. H sleeps in spare room a few nights to get sleep as ds (10 months] still wakes up for feeds in the night. So this email conversation took place in the middle of the night whilst he is in the spare room.
I stumbled over it when I tried downloading a doc from his email account. I asked if he ever exchanged emails with colleges late in the evening. He said no. No later than 20:00. I asked if he by any chance would email with this particular person late at night and he said no he wouldn't.
Well he has.
Is this a big deal? Sorry I feel really rubbish an not sure what to think.
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Fibbing or lying?
Fireflier · 19/02/2014 19:56
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