We are not close i just want to point out hardly ever see her if im honest shes very career minded and doesnt seem to have much time for her family.
Im already put out a bit about her not wanting her nephews or neices at the wedding its a no kids allowed do i do respect her decision but the kids would of liked oF have gone but owell.
So ive been asked today by my mum if i was going to Newcastle for the weekend in April with them because my other sister wasnt invited either and was a bit put out. First i knew Of it. I wasnt going to ask her or even mention it but i thought oh ok ill send her a little message on fb wanted to invite her to my dds birthday party anyway went on her profile and she seems to of been organising this for ages status about final numbers and booking hotels and limos etc. I can kind of understand her not wanting family there if its going to be her last weekend of freedom if shes going to be getting upto god knows what. I genuinely get that, but i just get this feeling shes been hiding the statu from me and possibly my other sister as ive seen loads of her other stuff recently but none about hen do.
Maybe she was thinking about money and childcare aspect of it for us aswell but that would be way too thoughtful of her so i dont know. But im kind of dissapointed obviously i knew the wedding was coming up but i was only saying to DH other day wonder what shes upto for her hen do i need a good night out.
Maybe like a lot of other stuff im over reacting and letting my mind work over but i am pissed off about it, she came to my hen do i invited her because end of the day shes my sister we may not be close but we're sisters, she was even my bridesmaid. Again we havent been asked to be a bridesmaid shes having her 3 closest friends, im not botherd about that in fairness i wouldnt like to be 1 but i could of had my friends as bridesmaids but i didnt i had my sisters because according to my mum you should have your sisters, maybe that says more about me than it does my sister.
Sorry to rant on
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would you be upset not to be invited to sisters hen do?
ThinkIMmad · 18/02/2014 23:26
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