Was it a 'take me to bed now', 'I just want to rip your clothes off thing'
Was it more of a 'you're lovely, I love you, I want to be in bed with you' feeling (even perhaps without lots of sex)
Or was the physical attraction and sexual desire just never really there?
Feeling guilty I don't want sex more often. Only been together 3 years and I'm quite content with once a week - twice max! We've discussed and doesn't seem to be a problem for either of us... but I know he'd be happy to have more and just worry sometimes that I never feel particularly excitedly turned on at the idea of it? Not turned off, and I do enjoy it, just a bit... indifferent.
I love kissing and cuddling him and often think I am so lucky to have him - we have a great relationship, just anxious about this one aspect.
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How much did you 'fancy' your husband before/when you married him?
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