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How old we're you when you lost your big V

(140 Posts)
Flowerybitch Mon 10-Feb-14 20:39:16

I was 14 and when I look back now I was soo young but thought I knew everything, lasted 2 minutes and really not all it was cracked up to be. Has anyone got any horror stories about their first time they would like to share :-)

expatinscotland Mon 10-Feb-14 20:58:29

16. No horror story, it was great!

Purplehonesty Mon 10-Feb-14 20:58:56

14. It hurt and I didn't have a clue what was going on.
Next time a year later with lovely bf was much better!

Iwillorderthefood Mon 10-Feb-14 20:58:58

17 very close to 18. It was great. No pressure whatsoever despite the fact he was 7 years older than me. He waited for me until I was absolutely ready. We were together for two and a half years or so.

newestbridearound Mon 10-Feb-14 21:00:27

22. I suffered very badly with vaginismus for a long time so the decision was taken out of my hands until then really, but as it turns out I'm glad I waited as it was with my now DH.

claraschu Mon 10-Feb-14 21:01:02

24, with my future husband and I just realised we have been together 24 years now.

dementedma Mon 10-Feb-14 21:03:08

Wasn't much fun.

somedizzywhore1804 Mon 10-Feb-14 21:03:55

16 and it really hurt! I remember thinking he must be doing it wrong! grin

hootloop Mon 10-Feb-14 21:04:22

15, I was very happy about it, it was lovely and I look back on it fondly. Sadly it wasn't with DH, he was my second. That is my only possible regret about it.

DakotaFanny Mon 10-Feb-14 21:04:38

16. Shouldn't have bothered! He made me go on top- terrible introduction to sex for someone who is not body-confident. Pppfffftttt!!!

ChrisMooseMickey Mon 10-Feb-14 21:07:39

18, to an english marine wink

Hung like donkey and it really hurtcat first. Second time wad much better! Sadly he turned out to be abit of a dick, but I dont regret it and I never will!

ethelb Mon 10-Feb-14 21:09:57


fifi669 Mon 10-Feb-14 21:10:32

14 to a bit of a prick. He was 17 and I thought he really liked me, but after a few jumps he went off with someone else.

Eminybob Mon 10-Feb-14 21:11:36

15 as was he. It was very planned we had to bunk off school to make sure we were alone and I still had my uniform on while doing it blush It's was pretty rubbish, we only did it twice in total and broke up not long after. I still think about him fondly though.

Daisypops Mon 10-Feb-14 21:11:39

19. To the love of my life who I left five years later sad

whitwoo89 Mon 10-Feb-14 21:15:17

22 to my dp. Two years later and I'm so glad it was with him. X

StrawberryCheese Mon 10-Feb-14 21:15:19

17 to my first love. It was great but I came back from the toilet to find him chatting on the phone to his mates. He sent a text message to all of them to let them know he had done the deed. I should have realised he was a dick there and then but I was young and stupid and stayed with him for 18 months.

MairzyDoats Mon 10-Feb-14 21:15:50

15 and I was pressured into it. He's a knob now too. I had a pregnancy scare and I get cold shivers now thinking about how I could have completely screwed up my life.

pointythings Mon 10-Feb-14 21:23:30

19, to my first bf - he was lovely, but older than me and ready to settle down whereas I had just started uni and wanted my wild years. He was kind, patient and made sure it was good for me though and I will always be grateful to him. My DPs still see him regularly, he is a lovely guy.

NoArmaniNoPunani Mon 10-Feb-14 21:24:25

16, a threesome, was brilliant

neiljames77 Mon 10-Feb-14 21:26:02

15. Could have lost it at 12 but lost my bottle instead.

nouvellevag Mon 10-Feb-14 21:31:57

18. The only exciting part was that we did it in a graveyard which I felt boosted my goth credentials. The bloke and the sex were both very dull.

Didn't hurt at all but then my hymen had been mangled years earlier during some energetic mountain biking.

Beamur Mon 10-Feb-14 21:34:50

I was 20 and probably about the last virgin in my Uni year. I did feel as if I needed to get on with it! My bf loved me from afar for sometime before I succumbed and we were together for several years. It wasn't great sex but it was the right person at the right time.

Flowerybitch Mon 10-Feb-14 21:35:59

Noarm a THREESOmE for your first time, how did that happen - please tell (hmm)

Trinpy Mon 10-Feb-14 21:36:47

16. To my first boyfriend. I don't think either of us were ready, it only happened because of a misunderstanding. It wasn't great but it was at least in a bed to someone I cared about, which is better than a lot of people manage.

Velve Mon 10-Feb-14 21:40:08

19, and loved every single second of it. Definitely no horror story here.

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