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How old we're you when you lost your big V

(140 Posts)
Flowerybitch Mon 10-Feb-14 20:39:16

I was 14 and when I look back now I was soo young but thought I knew everything, lasted 2 minutes and really not all it was cracked up to be. Has anyone got any horror stories about their first time they would like to share :-)

supadupapupascupa Mon 10-Feb-14 20:40:00

14. no horror story :-)

AcaciaBeez Mon 10-Feb-14 20:40:17

I don't know why but I didn't really talk about it with my friends at the time and don't know if that's early late or normal!

honeybeeridiculous Mon 10-Feb-14 20:41:55

18, led a sheltered life!

yegodsandlittlefishes Mon 10-Feb-14 20:45:10


tilliebob Mon 10-Feb-14 20:45:26

16, to my boyfriend of over a year. Now my husband of over 20 years. I had a really wild youth.....wink

RhinestoneCowgirl Mon 10-Feb-14 20:46:42

17, in a tent, on a school trip...

HairyGrotter Mon 10-Feb-14 20:47:17

16, although I was groomed. This was understood to be the case many years later, but it was a 'nice' experience as far as losing virginity goes, at the time! Ha

randomfemale Mon 10-Feb-14 20:47:37

19 and I was in love - no horror story unless you can count the blush about the bloody sheets.

Worriedkat Mon 10-Feb-14 20:47:43

Just 17 like the magazine of the same era

itsbetterthanabox Mon 10-Feb-14 20:47:48

17 and I'd been with my bf for a year. He's my fiancé now smile

Flowerybitch Mon 10-Feb-14 20:48:48

Tilliebob- that's lovely :-)

Neeliethere Mon 10-Feb-14 20:50:21

16 and it was planned to happen on my 16th Birthday. I realise now that I was probably groomed too. He was about 4 years older than me. It wasn't too good though.

tilliebob Mon 10-Feb-14 20:52:24

Cheers Flowery - I usually get a load of negativity and "ooh imagine only being with one person" guff from people who tend to be trying to convince themselves rather than offending me. I had no idea we'd still be together all these years later at the time, it's just the way life happened!

IsTheGrassGreener Mon 10-Feb-14 20:52:30

21. Have always been very shy. No horror stories to tell, except that at age 17 I was sexually assaulted and nearly raped by a guy I shared a tent with for the night (against my wishes, no alternative).

NaffOrf Mon 10-Feb-14 20:53:16

15. As was he. I was in lurrve. We were together for two years. He was luffly.

Gileswithachainsaw Mon 10-Feb-14 20:54:20

18. ONS blush hurt like hell

Busybusybust Mon 10-Feb-14 20:54:33

19 and I married him, and stayed (mostly) happily until he died 24 years later!

ItStillLooksLikeRainDear Mon 10-Feb-14 20:54:36

21, and 19 years later we're still together. 16 years married with 2 DC.

Lastofthepodpeople Mon 10-Feb-14 20:54:47

17. It was quite painful (but consensual), and I remember thinking quite clearly afterwards: well, I'm not going to do that again

HeyMicky Mon 10-Feb-14 20:55:59

18. To an American marine while I was backpacking in Italy smug

Flowerybitch Mon 10-Feb-14 20:57:12

It didn't hurt too much and only bled a little, realising how young I actually was reading the comments :-/

Finabhear Mon 10-Feb-14 20:57:43

19 he was beautiful and I was in love. It was fun smile

Flowerybitch Mon 10-Feb-14 20:58:07

Heymicky - sounds like a film...

TheMumsRush Mon 10-Feb-14 20:58:16

17 and in love with my then bf, still friends with him now smile

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