I posted on here awhile last year when very STBXH ended our marriage. There is much good news for me: found a lovely new man, have a great lawyer, so divorce petition filed in late July, Decree Nisi issued in late Jan & I should be married no more by early March.
However, VSTBXH is far from settling financially. ( Won't bore with details, but wants money from me - I have a business) he is now using the industrial tribunal route. This really makes no sense, I hope it gets thrown out.
I spent a "joyous" weekend writing a Witness Statement. Much dirty laundry will be aired if it goes ahead & is not tossed out. He won't look good.
One of my guy friends says he thinks he is p'ed off because I am not suffering enough, & that is why he is harassing me financially.
As part of the employment tribunal, I made him a notional offer to settle (I knew he wouldn't, but wanted to show willing.) His response was I should pay him £30k into his pension -WTF? How about he pays £30k into mine?
Why are they like this?. Mine ran off with another woman, so he is not the injured party.
Any thoughts?
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