The last 3 times she has visited she has made me feel awful, it's like she sucks the life out of me.
I haven't spoken to her since she left which has been lovely.
When she visits again:
No constant texting all day long
She can't share my bed, I will share with one of the dcs and she can have their bed
No declarations of 'I need it' eg wine or chocolate. Last time she ate all ds1 chocolate and I was furious
There could be more, like engaging with the dcs instead of watching tv but I think that's unlikely to change.
I would quite happily never have her here again, sadly we go on holiday with her next week, but I will be asking her to refrain from the constant texting on that trip too
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Does this sound ok re my mother?
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MozzchopsThirty · 09/02/2014 09:53
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