I can't live with my DH anymore, lots of issues (mainly that he is incredibly lazy and married to his xbox) and I can't take it anymore.
I've got some questions regarding divorce/separation and I'm hoping somebody can help.
- We both work full time so neither of us is the SAH parent, how is it decided where they live if we can't agree? I'd rather have them with me during the weeks and at their dad's every other weekend however I've got a feeling he won't agree to this. It would probably have to be every other full week but I would miss them sooo much! How have you solved this? And who pays for childcare? Do you pay for the weeks you've got the kids or does one parent pay for all the childcare?
- Do we really have to agree on why we are divorcing. If we can't agree on anything now we're not going to be able to agree on this either. And is it a good enough reason that he is always on the Xbox and won't do any housework?
- He is currently receiving the child benefit for both DC's. Can I make him share this if we divorce? Will my eligibility to tax credits or housing benefits ( which I will need if we divorce) be affected by me not receiving CB?
- We don't have any money so neither of us will be able to get anywhere else to rent. Would we get help from the council or will we have to stay living together until one of us has got enough for a deposit?
I realise I might come across a bit entitled but I really can't live with him anymore and I couldn't afford to be on my own with the dcs without help from benefits.