I am so so fed up with my situation, I have had enough of all the rubbish I am going through and could really use some help for how to deal with it all.
In a nutshell, I am trying to ensure my young child is safe and supervised when with my ex-p due to his drug problems which resulted in an incidnt of DV against me. For this sensible action, I have been bombarded with lying from my ex; threats to tell the HV/ss I am mad, that I have been beating him up in the relationship, him spreading malicious lies at my workplace (I am "witholding" his child from him), getting mutual colleagues to send me unpleasant letters condeming me for "my behaviour" and lying to his family.
He's making me out to be some evil bitch because he just wants to continue doing drugs with a child around and he likes the sympathy and attention he gets playing the "poor devastated dad" role, especially at work.
I'm now having to go into work and raise all this with my boss to at least get the truth out there and try to stop colleagues anonymously harrassing me as well as him! I suspect though that telling the truth will again make him look great and I'll get sacked or disciplined for not disclosing the drug abuse sooner. He will somehow twist it so he comes out smelling of roses. He always does.
Does anyone have any thoughts or advice on how to cope with the whole injustice of this, or any practical things I can do to right some of the wrongs? I am so upset that doing the "right thing" is seeming to get me universally condemned and it is so unfair.
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Feel heartsick trying to do the right thing and getting battered on all sides
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Popplecake · 08/02/2014 09:55
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