I can't LTB because the person abusing me is my teenage daughter. She bullies me, shouts at me, follows me around the house being verbally aggressive, name calls me, engages in character assassination, laughs at me, tells me to make eye contact when she's being verbally abusive then sneers at me when I won't. She is no longer (that) physical since we called the police twice following violent outbursts, but she physically intimidates me, shoves me out the way, throws my things on the floor. It is always done in response to me saying 'no' to her or taking issue with her constant lateness for school, complete failure to do ANY homework, rudeness to teachers.
I have 2 younger children. She's pretty hateful to them to.
Please don't suggest CAMHS, having her go into care, negotiating with her, punishing her, setting stricter boundaries. We have tried everything (apart from care - that isn't a possibility) and nothing works. We hope she will grow out of it, and if this doesn't happen she can move out at 18.
Until then I have to survive emotionally.
Do anti depressants help? What mental strategies can I use to stay strong?
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Minifingers · 07/02/2014 22:43
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