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Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

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Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Relationships

I need someone to talk too

32 replies

Pesca · 07/02/2014 00:10

I just need someone to be there to talk to. I know its pathetic

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pennygallops · 07/02/2014 00:13

Not pathetic at all. Is there something on your mind?

JanetSnakehole · 07/02/2014 00:14

I'm here

Pesca · 07/02/2014 00:16

Theres so many things on my mind. I feel helpless i dont know what to do for the best .

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Pesca · 07/02/2014 00:17

Everything is fucked up in my life

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WallyBantersJunkBox · 07/02/2014 00:21

Try writing it all down. I'm awake.

Loggins · 07/02/2014 00:22

I'm here too. Do you want to tell us what's wrong?

WallyBantersJunkBox · 07/02/2014 00:23

Loggins

JanetSnakehole · 07/02/2014 00:24

Can you tell s what's wrong?

Pesca · 07/02/2014 00:25

Im going to make myself sick . That helps me

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JanetSnakehole · 07/02/2014 00:26

Please don't. Talk to us.

Loggins · 07/02/2014 00:27

Pesca, talk to us instead for a bit eh?

Pesca · 07/02/2014 00:29

I have to iv eaten and iv ruined my diet. I know ill feel better if i let it out.

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Loggins · 07/02/2014 00:30

The diet can have a 10 minute break while you talk to us. Is the diet the reason you are upset?

Pesca · 07/02/2014 00:33

No its not the diet. Its my life my husband, iv not had anything go eat all week and i now feel sick , because iv eaten food.

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Loggins · 07/02/2014 00:35

It's not the food making you sick sweetie. It's probably stress, you need food to be able to think straight and give you strength, honestly

Loggins · 07/02/2014 00:36

Can you tell us what has happened?

Loggins · 07/02/2014 00:41

Cheers for the tea Wally.
Pesca, are you there?

Pesca · 07/02/2014 00:46

Im here. Iv just made myself sick. I know its wrong but i feel soo much better .

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Loggins · 07/02/2014 00:51

That's not a great way to make yourself feel better but I guess you know that already.
Do you think you could make a cup of tea with a little sugar in it to sip?

lollydollydrop · 07/02/2014 00:54

Hi Pesca, I'm sorry to hear you felt you needed to do that. I sympathise. I wonder whether you have come to the Relationships board because you wish to talk about a troubling relationship that is distressing you, and the purging was just your way of coping with overwhelming feelings?

Pesca · 07/02/2014 00:55

Its a release for me. I only do it once every 10 days or so.

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lollydollydrop · 07/02/2014 00:56

Rehydrating is an excellent idea Loggins. Pesca you should get some fluid back inside you. Do you often struggle with this?

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lollydollydrop · 07/02/2014 00:59

I understand, although it is not a healthy way to obtain that release and you could achieve the same effects through for example writing down your feelings, going for a drive, punching a pillow, talking to a friend, exercising :)

What did you need release from?

Loggins · 07/02/2014 01:00

Glass of water if you don't fancy tea? Go get something then come back ok

Pesca · 07/02/2014 01:04

I did have bulimia quite bad 15years ago along with self harming. I now do it once or twice a month. I cant talk to anyone about how i feel i dont really have friends, i cant go for a drive as im alone with 2 DCS . I could punch a pillow and write it down but i need more.

Im in an EA relationship and im really struggling.

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