The last few men I have been with can't cope with any disagreement. It seems that they feel that a difference of opinion, however small is a major threat to the relationship. I on the other hand feel that disagreements are normal, healthy and inevitable.
I have also found that most of my exes have left me when I need them most: my mum dying of cancer for example, starting a new job, becoming pregnant, being upset about something. It's not as though I lie around flailing or wailing either in hard times and just get on with it. Even when dds dad left me pregnant I got on with my tough teaching job.
All I want is a bit of blinking love and support and someone who doesn't see my opinions as threats. Someone who gets it.
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I feel like most men expect deference.
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superstarheartbreaker · 06/02/2014 19:25
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