I'm a new poster. And genuine. My wife is on Mumsnet and I thought I'd come over here to have a nosey, found myself on the relationships board and...wow. What a thoroughly depressing eye-opener. I guess I've had a very conventional life and, despite the normal ups and downs in my marriage, just have no experience or real understanding of some of the terrible, terrible things that women on here describe their partners and husbands doing to them.
My question is...well, why? I mean, assuming this is quite a widespread occurrence in the UK, what's wrong with these men; what caused them? The example they were given (or not given) when they were growing up; something about our society and culture that encourages or permits it?
I'm just genuinely interested in views (and no, I'm not a journalist). Obviously the women who post here are self-selecting so you can't necessarily draw conclusions about all men in the UK from their testimonies and stories. But...there's just so many brutal and horrific stories. They never seem to stop.
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New (male) poster - just...why??
sealift · 04/02/2014 15:38
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