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How often do you have sex

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lotti37 · 03/02/2014 14:16

Just curious how often people have sex. Been in relationship for long time. Thanks

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MegaClutterSlut · 03/02/2014 14:24

been together 14 years, normally once a week

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MirandaWest · 03/02/2014 14:25

Depends how often we see each other - we don't live together, but been together nearly 2 years and probably average about 3 times a week.

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JWIM · 03/02/2014 14:33

Together nearly 30 years - 2-3 times per week, usually weekends due to work/time/family etc.

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Jan45 · 03/02/2014 14:34

Really depends on the dynamics of the relationship and everyone has different libidos etc. I would say though the longer the relationship then the less the sex but as long as you are both satisfied then that's all that matters. I would also say, the more you do it, the more you want it!

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cathpip · 03/02/2014 14:40

Married 6 years been together 10, have sex around 2/3 times a week, bit more when on holiday.

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lollylaughs · 03/02/2014 14:44

This can vary so much. Depends of lots of things really. Can be every day or a couple of times a month.

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shadylane · 03/02/2014 14:48

Together nearly 8 years, married for 3, varies from 3-4 to 5-7 depending on tiredness, business, work schedules and kids etc.libidos go up and down.

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LoveUall · 03/02/2014 14:56

about 4/5 times a week on a normal week for intercourse. We are intimate in other ways though aswell its just finding the time

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MillyONaire · 03/02/2014 14:58

oh my....once or twice a month. Could take or leave it these days - together 20 years. Dh would like more - but probably not much more...

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KayHarker1 · 03/02/2014 15:00

After years of drought for a lot of reasons, I'm getting a healthy amount a week. This due to some superb advice on communication from MN. So it's probably once every other day on average.

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LightsPlease · 03/02/2014 15:03

5 times a week.

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hellsbellsmelons · 03/02/2014 15:05

With my ex - 15 years together by the end probably 4 times a week.

OH now - 3 years on and every morning and probably 3 more times, evening or weekend (depending if my DD is out working or not)

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SadFreak · 03/02/2014 15:07

Hardly ever.

Struggling to recall the last time. Maybe July last year.

But my relationship is fucked - hence the lack of fucking.

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MadeMan · 03/02/2014 15:36

All the time. I'm having sex right now as I type this.

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asgard · 03/02/2014 15:55

2 to 5 times a day total of 14 to 35 times aweek

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CharlieWoo · 03/02/2014 15:58

Maybe every other day.

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ExcuseTypos · 03/02/2014 15:58
Grin
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Joysmum · 03/02/2014 15:59

More often than not. We've been together 19 years.

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Ohwhatfuckeryisthis · 03/02/2014 16:06

What month is it now? About three months ago. Sad

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FoxMulder · 03/02/2014 16:08

I don't know how anyone has the energy mid-week

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Sunflower49 · 03/02/2014 16:15

It changes, but usually every 2-3 days at least.For the last few weeks It's been more often, several times a day, he has more energy than I do though!

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Gossipyfishwife · 03/02/2014 16:24

Not since 2001.

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Sunflower49 · 03/02/2014 16:31

My parents have been together almost 40 years and married for 32.I recently had my Mother tell me she's gutted that as they've aged it has dropped from every day to every two days. My face was a bit Shock

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Sallystyle · 03/02/2014 16:44

All depends.

Last week we had sex twice. We have had as long as 3 weeks with no sex.

Our drives are very up and down. I love it when we do it but sometimes I don't have the energy although I am crazy attracted to him.

We have been together for 8 years and have five children.

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headoverheels · 03/02/2014 16:56

Together 17 years with 3 DC. I'd say average is once a fortnight.

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