Sorry, just need a bit of a rant.
I split from my exH a couple of months ago after 12 months of trying desperately to save our 10 year marriage.
The persistant arguement has been do with a lack of sex as I just have no interest in it. It had been this way for a while but got worse after our DS was born 3 years ago. I was very self conscious as had gained a lot of weight and was always tired.
I couldn't cope with the days of sulking when I rejected his advances and eventually just started having sex even when I wasn't in the mood. Then the sulking about a lack of sex was replaced with sulking about the quality of sex. How I never initiated anything and didn't seem to enjoy it.
After 12 months of telling me what a crap wife I was a minor arguement triggered another full scale arguement about how crap our sex life was and exH told me it was over. I didn't bother fighting for him this time. I was relieved to be able to face the new year without him.
Ex moved out to a rented flat and is pretty much starting again in terms of furnishing it. This was his choice. I didn't throw him out and did ask several times if we were being to hasty but he was adamant that he needed his space.
Today I was talking to a mutual friend who informed me I was being very unfair to exH making him leave the family home and live like a porper. When I probed a bit further I discovered that he's been telling people it was a mutual decision to separate but that I forced him to move out with nothing!!
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I've just found out what he's really telling people
brittanyspierce · 01/02/2014 01:17
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