Have posted before about SIL and I will try to keep this brief.
There was a bust up about 5 months between DH and SIL over our DD. I never got involved, but suddenly I was the villain of the peace and was somehow getting the blame. A month later (and I still had not got involved), after a big public announcement on Facebook, she deleted me, then blocked me off FB. At this point I became furious and cropped her out of all my FB pics....if she didn't want me on her FB, I didn't want her on mine.
That was 4 months ago. During that time I have discovered lots of horrible things she has said about me and lies she has spread. Still I have said nothing. DH tried to make up with SIL for MIL sake several weeks ago but she didn't want to know (that was the other thread)
Tonight her DD has written on my Facebook wall publicly, that she has noticed I have cropped her mum out of my pictures and how childish and pathetic I am! Her DD will only hear (and believe) her side of the story. My own DD has never got involved in anything, even though she knows how toxic her aunt has been to me (and that is the way I want it)
Now DH has found out what I did to my pics and has gone ballistic at me, telling me I should have kept a 'dignified silence'. That we will never win against her and I have given her ammunition to make me look even worse than the lies she's already told people about me. Although he did say he could go and punch her and never wants her name mentioned again, I still feel totally gutted by DH response to me
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I always seem to come off worse where toxic SIL is concerned
amumthatcares · 28/01/2014 22:07
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