So I've been seeing a guy on and off for around 3 years he pops in and out of my life,I let him even though I know I don't actually want to be with him!
He isn't what I want in anyway! I don't really have fun when I'm with him, we never just sit and really have a laugh, the sex is never long enough so I'm never fully satisfied and he seems quite selfish in bed. He is also very selfish in general.
I annoy myself by letting him into my bed again but I've realised its because I havnt met anyone else. It's defiantly not that I want to him with him I'm certain of that.
I feel like I'm stopping myself from moving on and meeting someone that I one day may want to be with. I think I am commitment phobic after my last relationship with my dc's dad who cheated on me a lot. And having this crap guy
around is a sure fire way to ensure I won't settle down.
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positively9something · 23/01/2014 20:42
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