Just that really. Not even to my face, he sent a text during work.
History -We have a 10moDS. I teach Secondary, 4 days a week and DH works 5 days a week in the same school (non teaching though). DS is hard work, and we have had a miserable few months since I went back to work. We are shattered. DS does not sleep well.
We both suffer from MH issues - both on antidepressants and DH recently completed 4 years of counselling.
DH keeps telling me that he is not coping with being a Dad. I feel the same, it has been so hard recently. But I do just "get on with it" whereas DH cannot do this. DH gets extremely anxious when DS is stressing him out.
And that's why I think he has gone to stay with MIL. I'm not sure what I feel. I didn't speak to anyone at work about it (they all have to work with him too) and I'm just sitting here wondering if this is ok? Am I ok with this?
I'm too embarrassed to tell DM (she also works in the same school). All my friends work at the school too. I don't have anyone to talk to.
I think I feel let down...? What do I do next?
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DH has announced that he is going to stay with MIL for a while, leaving me alone with DS
ApplySomePressure · 23/01/2014 18:27
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