I am constantly nagging my DH about what he is not doing. Not helping the mood at home. I feel like I do everything. He recently had back surgery (4months ago) and had gotten used to being unable to do alot to help out. He is a good bit better now though unable to lift or do anything too exerting. He has never been the model house husband. I have always been the one to do all of the chores. We have a dog and a 20month son though and it's all too much for me alone when he wants looking after too. It makes me feel like he doesn't respect me but it's not in his nature to even think about doing something useful or to consider how much I have on my plate. I have asked him to help me but I get lots of excuses. He works full time (only 4 days just now to ease back after operation). I work two days. My parents watch DS so DH has no responsibilities there. I make his dinner and lunch even when I am at work. I do all the washing, ironing, cleaning, shopping, tidying... everything. He looks after the finances. I notice tiny things which makes me mad like me having to walk upstairs 3 times with all the things that need going up and he going up emptyhanded. How do I encourage him to help more constructively?
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How to encourage DH to help out more around the house.
sharond101 · 19/01/2014 21:50
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