I am getting married in a matter of weeks and most things are going fine, but there is one issue in the bedroom and that is that he rarely ejaculates. Should I be concerned?
Occasionally he'll manage it after about 40 minutes of going at it, but most times he'll just give up. He has never managed it through oral sex, only ever intercourse. Despite this, his sex drive is normal I think - we have it at least twice a week...sometimes every night, and only very rarely will he have trouble getting an erection (which I think is normal for men from time to time?).
So it doesn't really affect me as he is still able and willing to have sex, but is it something that I should be worried about? As in, does it indicate a downward path in terms of his sexual performance? I.e maybe in 5 years he'll have trouble keeping it up? If it matters, I'm 25 and he is 36.
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Sex: Fiance not 'finishing' in the bedroom
Beth9009 · 14/01/2014 02:42
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