Had lots of problems with my dh over the years, mainly due to alcohol on his part, he doesn't really drink anymore.
He is a miserable person by nature, he doesn't really do anything as a family with us and when he does is quite grumpy.
He's ruined family occasions and works nights out, I was talking to him the other day about an up coming family wedding and he said that he can't just be happy and if he doesn't like something he'll just walk out. This has played on my mind and ive come to the realisation that we just arnt able to be a 'normal' family.
I asked him take ds to the hairdressers yesterday, he said no, so I said I'd take him. Anyway he got all huffy and ended up taking him.
I find it really hard to let things go and we usually end up not speaking then having a row before it gets sorted out, which is what has happened. He's gone out, I don't know where or when he'll be back.
Sorry its a bit rambling, I don't know whether to call him to smooth things over or if we should call it quits. He's a sahd, he is nc with all but 1 member of his family, he's said in previous arguments that he would take our children from me. I don't want to lose my children or end up with access only.
My mind is all over the place
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desperateforaholiday · 05/01/2014 21:12
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