I would be very grateful for any advice on this. A few weeks ago my mother in law told one of my twins (boys age 6) that she wanted to be their mother. He then elaborated when recounting this to me, saying my MIL wanted to overthrow me and kill me and be the queen of this family. I don't quite know why he elaborated like this but he insisted that she had said to him that she wanted to be their mother and look after them.
That twin is currently staying with MIL and FIL as the other twin has had pneumonia and is with me 400 miles away at my mum's.
When I phoned my son at their house he said "mummy" very excitedly but then said- you are not my mummy any more, nanny is. MIL shouted out: "just while you're not here of course." FIL snatched the phone and said: that's ridiculous, it's just something he's made up and sought to reassure me.
Since I had the twins i have had a strained relationship with my MIL. It is obvious that she feels jealous of me and I secretly feels she hates me as she is always sending cutting texts and emails.
Please does anyone have any advice about how to deal with this? Thanks very much!
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BoyTwinsMum · 02/01/2014 00:45
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