Dh went no contact with the mil last summer (18 months ago), reasons include a history of neglect, picking and choosing when she acknowledged children & grandchildren, and choosing her step son, his life, his wants and desires over her own children. ( she has 2 boys, in their 40's, stepson is 39, so not a child).
Lots and lots more details but it would out me and it's not hugely relevant to my question.
Anyway, she has sent Xmas gifts to the kids ( quite happy with that, teen dd and almost teen ds have thanked her by text). However, Dh wasn't going to open his gift, just send it back , but bil said he should as it's a framed photo of their ( long since deceased) father.
My dilemma is, the polite past of me wants and needs to thank her, even tho my gift was yet another scarf.
What do all you folk who are nc do in situations like these?
Dh refuses to have any contact and I support him fully in this, I don't want to have anything to do with her either, but I'm new to this no contact stuff so could use advice/ opinions and thoughts.
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NC with mil but feeling guilty...help!
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Bigbrownmincepies · 26/12/2013 11:04
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