Just wondering if i ignore it, laugh it off or tell my OH that hes bothering me. Cant work out if hes just having a laugh
He has known this friend since middle school and have always been very on/off. Both have slept with each other gfs in the past (which they now make fun of) before my time so i cant really make an issue of it. Im not saying i dont like him we have a laugh when were all together but like today hes popped round with a card and some choccies for kids and me and hubby a bottle of something for christmas. OH wasnt home from work and his sister was also actually round, and he made a comment about the bottle of alchhol about maybe me and him should share it instead of hubby bet i would have more fun with him than hubby and gave me a wink. SIL was actually discusted she doesnt like him anyway and its her reallly thats got me thinking that its not really on the way he talks to me.
Hes always starring at my chest aswell which ive noticed a few times (not sure if OH has), hes made commnts to OH about the size of them and on a couple of occaions hes told him hes gone too far. Hes always making a joke aswell about swapping partners for old times sake.
I know men will be men especially ones that still think their 16 but tonight hes really annoyed me, not sure if SIL influence has made me analyse the situation more, i do usually just ignore it. But i also realised i dont lik been alone with him glad SIL was there
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my hubbys mate making lude commnets grrr
tiamariaxxx · 24/12/2013 00:10
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