I have just has an awful shock and found my DH of 3 months had 2 secret email accounts. They were being used to access cross dressing chat sites and a gay chat site which was targeted at men into cottaging (I had to look it up to discover what it meant). It seems to be mainly dirty messages and he is adamant he hasn't met anyone.
He last accessed these sites a month before our wedding and then I found he had logged on to the linked emails, to delete pictures of himself in MY underwear he tells me.
He says this wasn't about his sexuality but thrill seeking and that he needs to get an interest instead. He had been on these sites for about / years he tells me.
I never suspected this as he is normally very honest and always at home.
We have a child who has special needs so it is not as simple as just separating as that would cause so many issues for my DS.
I don't know what to think or do, so just want some perspectives really.
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DH on gay porn chat sites - help!
veryconfused2 · 04/12/2013 08:40
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