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First time sex with new man....hugely nervous....

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frenchmanicure Sat 30-Nov-13 13:05:18

I have been dating someone for the last couple of months, all seems to be going well, and physically we are now at a point where sex is on the cards.

I find him incredibly attractive - not just physically but mentally as well, he engage and excites my brain (if that doesn't sound weird!), and I very much want to sleep with him.


I feel, for once, so nervous. About the sex, about my body. This has never worried me before, I've never had pre-sex nerves. I've had ONS without any regret. I'm not the most confident person about my body generally but somehow in bed I've never been that worried til now. It's weird feeling like this, any words of advice?

Me2Me2 Thu 05-Dec-13 21:43:09

ha ha brill!

redundantandbitter Thu 05-Dec-13 22:03:59

Ooh, I love a happy ending, well..happy beginning! sips cocoa

savemefromrickets Fri 06-Dec-13 23:42:25

MadeMan, if it wasn't for DP I'd have fallen in love with you on the spot. I've been chocolate dodging for a few months but will now give it up in the hope of being flipped more easily by DP grin. God, I'm such a martyr for that man.

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