I have a smallish house in London with mortgage. My adult son and partner live with me and my younger son lives away but returns to stay as and when he feels like it. The point is - I am paying for everything. Partner pays £250 a month towards living costs, resident son pays nothing and I am self employed and only earned 14k gross in the last tax year. The sums are not adding up. I have nothing to spend on myself unless my own mother gives me a little hand out then my older wealthier,retired brother objects so now I have to give him half, and I am getting frightened. Partner is still married to his wife, separated for 10 years and keeps his flat going though have only been there a handful of times. Should I kick them all out and sell up? - that way I could be mortgage free. What would anyone here do? Thanks.
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