I have been in a relationship for just over 2 years. We don't live together but spend all our free time together. The issue is that we both have children from previous relationships, but they don't live in the same area. Every other weekend, we spend (separately) with our children. He goes to visit his children who live 2 hours away and stays for the whole weekend.
My problem is that I can't see how things can work out long term if we can never have any family time together with all our children together. They are 12 and 14 and have their own lives/interests where they live, and do not want to spend weekends where we live.
I would never want to stop him seeing them but can't see how this relationship could work if we and our children are never able to spend time all together, especially at christmas/birthdays etc.
AIBU? is there a way to make this work? Or should I accept that nothing is perfect and accept it for what it is?
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violet123 · 05/11/2013 11:35
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