I really need people's advice on this as we have no idea what to do.
MIL is toxic. We know this, she has done some pretty nasty stuff towards us, she is very selfish, shows no respect and plays the victim alot. The last straw was when i found out she'd been telling people/family i'd got an eating disorder (i have no such thing!)
That was a few months ago. We have cut contact and its been lovely.
For Christmas DH and I have decided to get married (we have been together for a few hundred years so I allways call him 'husband')
Nothing fancy, nothing big. Just a few close family members at the local registry office. We haved it for mid December!
So now..what do we do about MIL? We havn't spoke in a few months and she has made NO attempt to say sorry for anything she has done. No attempt to see her granddaughters [3 and 12 weeks]
I'm not prepared to sweep it all under the rug, again. Not this time.
So what do we do? Tell her? Invite her?
She and FIL will be the only 'family' DH will have on his side. Ive asked him what we wants to do and he's said he's not bothered.
Help!
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Should we invite MIL to our wedding?
MommyBird · 04/11/2013 20:04
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