That's basically it to be honest
I've been having an emotional affair for the past few months. So as not to drip feed the EA was with someone I have a history with, but who I'd been NC with for quite some years until recently.
Dp found the messages we had been sending one another and has basically said I'm dead to him and we're over. He's no interested in talking about it, has just said I'm an idiot and a mug. (He's now gone out for a drive)
I have 2 very young dcs with dp. I've lost my financial independence as I only work part time 3 evenings a week so I can be at home for the kids during the day. Dp says he's going to keep the kids, can he do this?
I know I need to see citizens advice to get some info about benefits I can claim, but is there anything I can do this weekend?
I don't think this is fixable between us. I've screwed up massively but I just want to make sure my dc's don't suffer from the fallout.
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Emotional affair, dp found out. Now what?
YesIveNameChanged · 01/11/2013 21:23
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