Don't get me wrong, I am so not ready to set up shop yet, but this question has been on my mind since yesterday.
Me and H split last week, it's for good, it's what I wanted/needed. He's an EA porn addict apparently. For a long time I have been fantasising about a life of peace and celibacy in a lovely stress free house with my DS who is nearly two. Ah bliss!
But well meaning friends and relatives have raised the question, what would happen if....you met somebody else?
To be honest, I can't see it. I know MN gives you a distorted view of things, but Christ it seems so rare. Plus I have couple of friends who are ATM in unhealthy relationships. My DSis was divorced a few years ago. She is actually moving in with her new man in a couple of months but because of things that have happened in their relationship, at the back if my mind I think she is settling.
But...although it seems an attractive proposition now, I had never really envisaged me spending my life alone.
At 31 it seems a bit premature to bin my lucky drawers and after a week ofnseparation it's way too soon to put them on again I know.
But for that time in the distant future, when I may or may not feel ready, what are the chances?
I just feel like I would like to read some positive stories
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Are there any decent ones out there?
EllieInTheRoom · 25/10/2013 10:54
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