Ex dp and I split up 2months ago as he was contacting other women at two separate times of the year. One the first time and about ten the second.
Anyway, he still comes over to visit ds in the evenings and whilst they were at the shops tonight I had a look through his phone. I know it was stupid of me and I only have myself to blame but the opportunity was there and I felt as though I had to do it.
I found out that it appears as though he never stopped contact with the first woman (despite her being pregnant then and with a partner and I had forgiven him on the understanding all contact was ended)
I know we are no longer together and it shouldn't matter to me but it really hurts to think that he is still lying to me and probably has been for months.
I have bent over backwards to ensure he can still see ds, including letting him come here when he was unable to take him to his and also finding him suitable accomodation through a friend.
I really want to contact this ow's dp but I know that isn't the answer and won't make me feel any better knowing that I have caused hurt to someone else (if he believes me). I just want dp to suffer as I am because at the moment he seems to.be carrying on as normal.
I have no idea what to do with these feelings of hatred
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Grrr I am feeling so angry and hurt, please talk me out of it
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gingerbreadshoes · 24/10/2013 19:46
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