Had a thread in AIBU that upset some people because apparently that wasn't the place for relationship issues
I'm 25 weeks pregnant. I fell pregnant accidentally, I'm 18, my partner is 22. We'd been together 6 months and decided to move in together so we started renting an apartment last month.
Everything seems to be going wrong. DP can't hold onto money for more than 2 seconds. On paper we have more than enough and should be fine so why are we in and out of overdrafts? I've questioned this and then the next night he will come with a PS3 game or something like that. Yet when I tell him I'm going shopping because I need some new leggings because none of my old clothes fit me it turns into a row because apparently we need to save our money.
I feel like I'm constantly walking round on the verge of a breakdown. DP doesn't want to do any antenatal classes at all, not even the NHS ones because apparently no one he knows uses them and we can learn it all from books. I said I will have no friends when I'm on ML with a newborn - I've moved 40 miles from where I used to live and all my old friends have gone to uni anyway. So I said I will go to some baby groups when the baby's born and he doesn't want me to do that either, he wants us all to go out together on a weekend as a family. He doesn't want to do anything with my family. We've chosen a name for our baby (we're having a boy) and my parents keep calling the baby a nickname which I don't mind. DP doesn't like it and keeps telling me to say something to them.
We said I will pay for food and he will pay for the bills yet in the last month he's asked me for half the council tax, Sky bill and n-power bill.
I'm so fed up. My life should have been so different. I love my baby so much already and know I made the right decision in keeping him but sometimes I just think how on earth have I ended up here?
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Fed up with DP and money issues
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Stripyjojocat · 17/10/2013 08:53
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