Im at the end of my tether here and need advice. I ve been with partner for six years now and things have been going wrong since 2010. We havent slept together since april, separate beds also. NO physical contact at all.
The crux of the problem was his constant drinking. He does hold down a job. He manages to have a hobby but around me and our dd al he really does it drink. At first I thought he would cut back, he did for some nights during the week but never stuck to it, ever. If he looks after dd at weekends I have lost count of the times I have come home to him sleeping, blood shot eyes and bugger all done. I say anything and it all kicks off, he says I am a nag and mad?!?
Recently I told him if this keeps up then I am finishing it - So his trick was to say ok no drink in the week- but he would come home late from work?, then nip out always for milk or some such item. He has never done this before? He has told me he is still at work Ive driven round to the shops and he has been sat in his car drinking wine?!?
I know he does this often as his mood has changed when he gets back.
He can go to work do hobbies without a drop but for me and our family life?!? this is the norm.
Im up shit creek as we have a joint mortgage and he WONT leave, WONT sell , WONT rent it out. I feel utterly sick as every last bit of money is tied up in the house. I am going to hae to rent out a smal place until he hopefully moves things on. Help any one any advice. x
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OHGODHEREIGO · 03/10/2013 09:54
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