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adale63 · 30/09/2013 20:21

apologies for posting so very soon after registering but i'm looking for some good advice
Been married 4 years together 12 in total. until now have enjoyed good and varied sex life and always been very close emotionally and physically. went threw a sticky patch around 18mths ago and was make or brake.
Since this time i cannot read her feeling and our sexlife has dried up and we last slept together over 2 months ago which was a quicky before sleep.
Tried chatting to her about things but she is reluctant to talk and tells me i'm paranoid but i can't help it, i dont know what to do and i'm being driven crazy so much so its really impacting my life.
She only goes out drinking with her mates now can't remember when we went out last as a couple this saddens me
She says she loves me but their is nothing physical between us if i hug or try to kiss i am usually pushed away
she is flirty by nature with everyone inc other guys which i don't mind but now she still flirts with other guys but totally no flirting with me if i mention this im told im jealous
i work away from home often and when i come home after a number of days we just sit on sofa watching the soaps but she used to jump on me
like i mentioned ive tried chatting but its impossible, is it over? please help

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 01/10/2013 08:49

What was it that happened 18 months ago?

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