I have NC'd for this post.
Husband and I have two children, dd (21months) and ds (7 weeks old).
Since ds was born things between s have go incredibly bad, to the point where we argue and fight more than we're not. We're rarely civil to each other let alone nice, and I don't think I can continue this way.
Dd has never been a good sleeper, and is up every 2 hours at best, every 45 Monday worst. Husband doesn't want to help at night and says h is happy to leave dd to cry to sleep, and ds for me to deal with. If ask for help, he becomes angry, aggressive and nasty. He called me a cnt this morning and regularly mocks me or tells dd nasty things about me in front of me during arguments, for example "dd lets ignore mummy she's insane! She's mentally unstable!".
I do all the parenting, finances, housework, dinners, and on mat leave so will be back at work on 6 months.
I am unwell at the moment and am crying non stop at the thought of going it alone with two small children as I don't think I can carry on with livin like this.
Is there any advice you can give that will help? I've tried asking him to leave the house or go in another room when he starts becoming aggressive amd vicious to clm down, then discuss the issue but being called a cnt a lot and bing told I am insane is starting to wear me down. I have also suggested we write own our concerns when we're angry and then discuss them, but again this hasn't worked.
We have no family to watch the children if we go to counselling, and friends are childless and have said they're of scared to look after children.
What else can we do?
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We're nasty to each other constantly - advice needed please
SheldorAFK · 23/09/2013 10:59
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