I separated from STBXH a few months ago. One of several reasons for this was that he was excessively clingy and kept on demanding more and more attention, love, sex, ... etc. from me.
He has not really accepted that I'm not coming back and still clings to me a lot (e.g. wanting to do things together as friends all the time etc.). He keeps on telling me I'll come back and he'll fight until I do. He's also been in a shit job ever since we moved here last year. I've been supporting him financially even though we're separated.
Now STBXH is telling me that he won't need my help anymore because he's found a great new job. WITH MY COMPANY!
Now my company is quite big and we are unlikely to work together on a daily basis. Still, I feel completely claustrophobic about this. It's not as though he has made any effort to apply to any other firm, just mine. I have a strong inkling that the only reason he made an effort this time is me.
I told him I had very mixed feelings about this. Now he's saying that I'm pissing on his parade, that I should be happy that he's found a great position, that I'm being irrational and spiteful. And I feel obediently guilty.
Am I out of line?
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STBXH and my work ...
StackOverflow · 22/09/2013 16:40
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