On many threads on MN the general default response seems to always be LTB. I find this really sad and potentially dangerous.
Yes obviously there are situations when it would be best for everyone involved to end the relationship.
However, sometimes I think it's tired exhausted women needing someone to understand them, sympathise and help. Not judge on what little facts a stranger gives you and tell them to make life altering decisions.
Personally I don't think I could advise anyone to leave their partner unless their well being or children's is in danger. I wouldn't want to influence a friends decision on that, let alone a stranger.
I get the impression there are a lot of strong women out there and MN is a safe place to discuss problems. But the solutions on offer seem very black and white sometimes.
I expect to get flamed but it does upset me when a woman is told to leave her partner by people who don't know the full story. We used to be able to talk to our partners and figure things out. Yes life is short but its also hard work sometimes but hopefully worth it...
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Should strangers really be advising women to leave their husbands?
mamabrownbear · 18/09/2013 08:12
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