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DP attacked me, think I have consussion.

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MrsRajeshKoothrappali Mon 16-Sep-13 11:55:13

He's downstairs playing GTA, refused to drive me to A&E.

Feeling really sick. Head is thumping and am really dizzy. Can't stop crying.

He grabbed the hair at the roots on the top of my head and shook really hard.

I want to go to sleep but am scared I'll die.


What do I do? Should I just beg him to help me?

MrsRajeshKoothrappali Fri 04-Oct-13 22:10:38

Yes, I'm okay.

Still feeling a bit shaken by the whole thing.

Just trying to get on with it.

Appreciate everyone being so nice.


WahIzzit Fri 04-Oct-13 22:23:56

Is this man who attacked you still living with you?

foolonthehill Fri 04-Oct-13 22:25:02

you should be shocked and shaken.
please look after yourself and consider how you could safely get out of there. I know it is difficult to comprehend or to cope with this but he can and probably will do this again.

Bogeyface Fri 04-Oct-13 22:27:59

So you are still with him, still playing nice and wont change anything?

Lweji Fri 04-Oct-13 22:31:57

And I presume you're still buying a house with him?

I would seriously reconsider it.

Bogeyface Fri 04-Oct-13 22:35:11

I know it is difficult to comprehend or to cope with this but he can and probably will do this again.

That ship has sailed. From the OP's reaction I would say that this isnt the first time and that she is used to minimising sad

MrsRajeshKoothrappali Fri 04-Oct-13 22:40:29

He's still here.

I hate him. Really hate him.

Just no idea what to do. Completely worn down.

foolonthehill Fri 04-Oct-13 22:47:47

Yes i know, I've been there.....

Can you phone women's aid? The number does not show up on a BT phone bill. They are experts at helping women to get out safely, and they will believe and support you.

foolonthehill Fri 04-Oct-13 22:50:06

it is not impossible to be just feels like it is. really you only have to do one small thing at a time.

First get some real life support:0808 2000 247

Use in private browsing and look here

Lweji Fri 04-Oct-13 22:56:23

When you leave you'll find it easier than living with a man who gives you concussions.

ChippingInNeedsSleepAndCoffee Fri 04-Oct-13 22:56:44

Has he hurt you again?

Just talking to Women's Aid doesn't commit you to anything you know, but might help you to think things through. Sounds like you are short of RL support?

EhricLovesTeamQhuay Sat 05-Oct-13 17:13:23

Have you reported it to the police?

Chubfuddler Sat 05-Oct-13 17:14:25

You do know what you need to do op. You need to ring the police. I'll hold your hand while you do it.

foolonthehill Sat 05-Oct-13 19:43:32

we're all here for moral support and encouragement

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