Sounds odd but yes...me and DD are in a Refuge and there no houses for bidding yet..so its quite a wait. There are ladies in the Refuge who pick fights just for the sake of it. CalL you every name under the sun over petty issues. I hate shared accomodation and I do my best to stay away from these particular women who have police and social services after them. I'm not perfect and I am so relieved I left my STBXH, getting loads of therapy and support from the Refuge but Jesus Christ..some women are nightmares. They have confessed to everyone that they just need a house and being in a Refuge its quicker for them..but why make life a living hell for some of us who are genuinely running away from abusers?? I'm not talking about something I'm not sure about, we've met them in town playing happy families with their partners and at the end of the day,they come back to the Refuge and make life worse.its already worse enough for me and I dont know what to do. The HV has helped me get DD on a stable routine hence moving to another Refuge to run away from these 2ladies is not an aoption.
Don't know if you understand what I'm rumbling about but I'm in my room next to DD and in tears. Life can't get any worse than this. . Please tell me how to cope or live with this.
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Been in a Refuge?? How did you cope especially with 'abusive' Women who are just there to "get a house"?
shadesofwhite · 10/09/2013 00:21
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