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I've been married 8 years, found out recently that H has been sex chatting women for 6 of those. He's into ladies in basques, stockings, leather, role playing. Our sex life has been non-existent for about 5 years. Started with him not being able to hold on long enough (at all), me not enjoying sex. Both putting on weight. And then now I have difficulty with penetration. I don't think I ever was attracted to him, in a fancying him kind of way, instead we get on really well.
I'm not into these things, I like sexy lingerie but that's about it. I don't even like BJs. How does sex work in a long term relationship? I've never had a long term sexual relationship before this. I am now not sure if this is a potential problem for me with any partner.
I'm leaving H but need to know its ok and not all men are like this, into this kind of special sex stuff.
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Bustedmonkey · 09/09/2013 20:34
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