DH can't do conflict, he will do anything to keep the peace. His family live a few hours away and we usually see them about 4-5 times a year. Last year his brother did something terrible to DH (the thing impacts us all) that I cannot forgive, and while DH was upset at the time he has coped in his usual way by not confronting and then putting an alternate reality on the situation.
I have said to DH that I don't want to see his brother from now on. He won't say anything to him so we have managed this by just not visiting anyone (they all live so close it's impossible to make a trip without everyone knowing and turning up). We'll need to do a trip soon but it's making me anxious, if I see him I won't be able to be pleasant and DH and I will argue. DH went on his own last time with DD (with the excuse I was working but obviously I cannot use this forever).
WWYD?
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How do I avoid DHs brother without some big showdown?
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FreddieStarrAteMyHamster · 06/09/2013 12:39
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