I am really tired of the way an old friend treats me. Throughout our long friendship I've been the one who you'd call 'reliable' and made the effort, and she's been the one to keep me waiting when she promises to return my calls etc, and way down her list of priorities. I've now decided enough is enough. I don't want to end the friendship in a dramatic way, but I do want to adjust how I see her- and that's going to be a not-so-close friend any more. I'll keep in touch but I won't think of her in the same way.
She's pretty forthright and it's not unlikely she will challenge me if she perceives I've taken a step back. Would you be honest- or just go down the 'oh I'm busy' line?
She's not very self aware in terms of her own behaviour (it's always everyone else fault and never hers, IYSWIM) so I suspect she doesn't recognise what I see as constant off hand behaviour.
How would you handle this?
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How do you 'divorce' an old friend?
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Jemima73 · 21/08/2013 18:04
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