Hello I am a man who has just started a relationship and there seems to be strong feelings but as things have gone on, there have been discussions about sexual history as you'd expect.
It feels like its been reasonably honest but something has been concerning me and I would like some perspectives.
Whilst we both seem to have been a little wayward, her stories seem to consist of a lot of 'I didn't intend to but he asked and I couldn't say no'. she has mentioned terminations and a couple of days ago said that one recent random shag was a heroin user.
I'm pretty broad-minded and ok with women seeking pleasure from sexual encounters but this seems a little unsettling - my 'randoms' have typically been with professional women or students.. not just anyone on the street.
Am I being prudish or snobbish to be nervous about a future here? Otherwise she seems very together and fun to be around. She seems to drink more regularly than I do -but no more than other female friends.
I guess if I am honest I am as much worried/jealous that she could seemingly accidentally fall into bed with someone risky whereas I seem to stay a little in control how ever I drink.
What do you think?
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To be worried about sexual history
NotDead · 19/08/2013 22:52
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