The saying "you will meet in your lifetime one person who will love you more than you ever have known or will know. They will love you with every bit of their soul. They will sacrifxe, surrender and give so much that it scares you. Someday you'll realize who that is. Sometimes people realise who that was."
I realise now that no one else would have stood by me through everything he did. It must have killed him to watch me in pain and hurting. He comforted me. He didn't hold me at my strongest. But he came and held me at my weakest without judgement or questions. He was just there, never pushing for more than I was ready to give abd I let him close n then pushed him away. As hard as possible n still he stayed. He held me through my nightmares and reassured me through everything. Kept me fighting. Now I realise he was probably the only one who would have n he barely knew me. Even now he's always there. I know I fucked up n the damage is able to be repaired but I want him. Despite my actions (we were never a couple) it was always him. But I can't tell him cos I want him to be happy but I miss him, I shouldnt have pushed him away but I was a mess. It's hard to explain but with him I feel safe. And at ease. Like I can just be me.
I Wish I could go back n change things. I know I need to move on, but something keeps us going back to each other. We spend days together n nights on rare occasions. We can sleep just sleep next to each other. We have been physical and even now I know I could call n he'd be there n he could do the same.
Everyone else could see what I could not. I didnt think he wanted me, everyone else could see that all I wanted was him n he me.
Just wanted to get it out cos I'm too cowardly shy afraid to get hurt to tell him.
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they say sometimes you realise who it was
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StupidMistakes · 17/08/2013 23:45
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