H left in Feb after 13 years together and 3 kids. He had an affair and was emotionally abusive to me.
I have gone utter devastation to anger/feeling strong and now I feel wobbly again. These days I can't even read threads about affairs and relationship breakups without welling up and feeling like Od been cheated on again. I desperately want to pay back the kind ladies who offered me support by holding the hands of people in the same situation needing support.
Ex is seeing the kids EOW and midweek and paying more than the CSA amount so no problems on that side but I feel really frustrated that I seem to be regressing. I am on anti-d for anxiety and had counselling from the MH team and was feeling stronger but I feel my mood rapidly crashing again.
I don't want him back and just want to move on. Is it normal to regress? When can I expect to feel better again?
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enderwoman · 17/08/2013 01:36
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